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Not Everyone Is Excited About Your Evolution

When the world wants to keep you small, be you in a big way.

Katie Cavenagh
6 min readJan 11, 2022

When you change, everything around you changes. While it’s great for you, sometimes other people can’t handle it because it threatens their view of ‘reality’.

You no longer fit the version of you they created, so now, part of their world is shattered and they don’t know what to do. Some people work very hard to make sure things around them don’t change, and that’s ok, but it does not mean that you have to stay who you’ve always been so as not to upset them.

Here’s the thing- keep doing the work on you. Sure, it’s gonna piss some people off, but those people are getting triggered by who you have become.

See, when you start showing up differently you force others to see themselves in a new light. Many are not willing to do this as it threatens their identity as well, and most people don’t want to change.

I mean, if you’re all happy and warm, snuggled up in your comfort zone, would you want to throw that fuzzy blanket off and go for a run in the snow? I didn’t think so.

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Katie Cavenagh
Katie Cavenagh

Written by Katie Cavenagh

Spiritual coach, energy healer, and writer with a goal of inspiring change and awareness within human consciousness.

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